Let Go of Old Fears

What does a flight, a fortune teller, and a lesson have in common?

As we were descending into Charlotte, a quiet man seated next to me unexpectedly shared, โ€œ๐™ˆ๐™ฎ ๐™ข๐™ค๐™ข ๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™˜๐™š ๐™ซ๐™ž๐™จ๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™š๐™™ ๐™– ๐™›๐™ค๐™ง๐™ฉ๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™š ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ก๐™ก๐™š๐™ง ๐™ฌ๐™๐™ค ๐™ฅ๐™ง๐™š๐™™๐™ž๐™˜๐™ฉ๐™š๐™™ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™š ๐™ค๐™› ๐™๐™š๐™ง ๐™ฉ๐™๐™ง๐™š๐™š ๐™จ๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™จ ๐™ฌ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ก๐™™ ๐™™๐™ž๐™š ๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™– ๐™ฅ๐™ก๐™–๐™ฃ๐™š ๐™˜๐™ง๐™–๐™จ๐™.โ€

Not exactly the small talk you expect at 30,000 feet. And I quickly felt the urge to ask about his brothers.

This was only his second flight ever - the first was decades ago when smoking cigars on planes was still a thing. He had spent years avoiding the skies, carrying the weight of an old prediction.

As we landed safely, I reassured him that statistically flying is far safer than it was seventy years ago.

Awkwardly relieved we weren't on the next flight together; I started to wonder:
๐Ÿ”น How often do I let the past dictate my future?
๐Ÿ”น Am I reacting to fears or beliefs that simply arenโ€™t true?
๐Ÿ”น Am I fully embracing life, or hesitating in the shadows?
๐Ÿ”น How many of us are quietly carrying emotional burdens we donโ€™t see, shaped by past traumas or worries?

Larry, I know you will make it to Myrtle Beach to see your daughter.

But Iโ€™m grabbing this reminder to not let fears steal todayโ€™s opportunities.

Katie Goar

Katie Goar started with Quadel in 2007 and began leading the company as president in 2015. She leads Quadel with a special focus on customer service and has shifted the companyโ€™s corporate culture, resulting in excellent client service. Katie brings decades of affordable housing experience, having held a mayor-appointed position in city government, a top-level management role within a public housing authority and provided portfolio oversight for 60,000 multifamily units before leading Quadel, a nationwide affordable housing consulting and training organization.

https://www.katiegoar.com/
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