The 20s Yes Moments
Thereโs a meme trend that says: ๐๐ฏ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ 20๐ด, ๐ด๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐ธ๐ช๐ญ๐ญ ๐ข๐ด๐ฌ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ต๐ฐ ___, ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ช๐ตโ๐ด ๐ช๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ต๐ข๐ฏ๐ต ๐ต๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ด๐ข๐บ ๐บ๐ฆ๐ด.
I laugh every time I see it.
Hereโs my version ๐
In your 20s, someone will ask you to take a job you canโt explain - listen.
In your 20s, someone will ask you to learn an acronym-heavy skill set youโll not sort out for years - learn.
In your 20s, someone will ask you to take a job in affordable housing and compliance - and itโs important you say yes.
It was my first job out of graduate school.
I just needed a job.
I had zero idea what HUD regulations were.
Zero understanding of how housing programs actually worked.
But somewhere deeper, I understood housing insecurity because I had lived it. That inner knowing mattered more than the job description.
What felt like a foot in a door became a calling.
What I didnโt know yet, I learned.
What I lived, I carried with me.
Sometimes the most important career decisions donโt feel strategic in the moment - they feel practical, even desperate.
But they plant roots you donโt see yet.
From homeless to housing CEO wasnโt a plan.
It was a series of yeses. And one moment where I listened.
What is your "๐ช๐ฏ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ 20'๐ด, ๐ด๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐ธ๐ช๐ญ๐ญ ๐ข๐ด๐ฌ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ" moment?