Celebrate Your Wins

During a recent webinar, I talked about something simple but powerful:

๐‚๐ž๐ฅ๐ž๐›๐ซ๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ง๐ฌ.

Not just the big ones.
Not just the ones other people see.
All of them.

After the session, I heard from one of the leaders. She reminded me that years ago, when she earned a promotion, I had told her: โ€œ๐˜Š๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฃ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ฆ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ง. ๐˜‰๐˜ถ๐˜บ ๐˜ด๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ซ๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ต ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ. ๐˜•๐˜ฐ๐˜ต ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ, ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฌ๐˜ช๐˜ฅ๐˜ด.โ€

She did.

And when she earned her next promotion, she did it again.

Now, each time she sees those items, she remembers exactly why she bought them and it brings her joy.

We spend so much time pushing, achieving, serving, and showing up for others that ๐ฐ๐ž ๐จ๐Ÿ๐ญ๐ž๐ง ๐ฌ๐ค๐ข๐ฉ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฉ๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐ฐ๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐ž ๐ฐ๐ž ๐ก๐จ๐ง๐จ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค ๐ข๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ๐จ๐ค ๐ญ๐จ ๐ ๐ž๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐ž.

There's a reframe to learn this:
โœจ Donโ€™t wait for someone else to recognize you.
โœจ Mark the milestones - big or small.
โœจ Give yourself permission to celebrate the person youโ€™re becoming.

Feel proud of your wins. Every single one.

And that's the end of year lightning bolt to take you into the new year.

Katie Goar

Katie Goar started with Quadel in 2007 and began leading the company as president in 2015. She leads Quadel with a special focus on customer service and has shifted the companyโ€™s corporate culture, resulting in excellent client service. Katie brings decades of affordable housing experience, having held a mayor-appointed position in city government, a top-level management role within a public housing authority and provided portfolio oversight for 60,000 multifamily units before leading Quadel, a nationwide affordable housing consulting and training organization.

https://www.katiegoar.com/
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